Black Love- When A Woman Loves A Man-
HOW TO CALM YOUR MAN'S MIND
1. MAKE LOVE TO HIM
There are many ways to show love, affection, friendship, connection, and attraction. LOVE IS A VERB! You can make love to your man all day long in the little and big things you do. This can be a prelude for strong bonds, mutual memories and trust. Intimacy, privacy, and quality time are important. Sex has a way of relaxing a man. Men want to feel desirable just like you do. You will change his mood when you make love to him, especially if you are the one who seduces him and initiates it. Look intentionally at him. Stare, smile, speak sweetly, and playfully. Leave poetry, jokes and inspirational messages like breadcrumb trails.
2. ASK HIM HOW HE IS
Most women want their man to ask them "How was your day?", "How did you sleep?" "How are you?" yet they rarely ask the husband these. If these questions make you feel cared for, your man also wants to feel cared for. Kiss him goodbye and Celebrate his Arrival home!
3. FEED HIM!
Health is Wealth. Your food is your medicine. Every fruit, Herb, and Vegetable that you grow or select is alive with purpose. Cultivate a garden in your windowsill, and grow micro greens to add vital nutrients and freshness to your meals, especially during the winter. Limit eating out or grabbing fast foods, unless you are intentionally eating with family and friends. As you make those home-prepared meals, you are sending your love energy with every touch, slice, and spoonful. Speak Life. Play some nurturing music or sing, and pray happy thoughts as you prepare.
4. MAKE YOUR HOME A PEACE-ZONE
Welcome Your man home. If coming home to you is coming home to yet another argument, conflict, and fight where you explode and turn everything into an issue, the minute he walks into the room, he will dread coming home and it hurts when the home is a place to run away from, not to run to. Communication is Key. What is your Love Language?
5. BLESS YOUR HOME -MAKE A CLEAN ORGANIZED ENVIRONMENT
Men like what they see. Having an inviting space to come home to as a couple is relaxing and inspiring. Memories are made from the senses. Have all of his senses stimulated: sight, sounds, smells, tastes, and touch. It is important to have empty resting spaces to rest your eyes. Colors are integral to your life. There are family crests, and colors tied to your destiny, health, relationship and career, connect to a community
cultural/spiritual leader for advice. Learn about Feng Shui- wind and water flow of energy, placement and movement in space. Bring Live house plants into your home. Plants clean the air and provide oxygen. Herbal potted plants can provide fresh live nutrients to your foods.
A disorganized home is a breeding ground for stress, cortisol, depression, and disease.
A lot of men can be disorganized, especially when they are going through a lot in life or have a lot on their minds. This chaos in their system, dressing, schedule, or environment can lead to more unease in their mind. When you help him clear the clutter and attend to some of his needs without him asking, he will think better. Don't throw out his lucky ugly sweaters
6. LET HIM HAVE HIS MAN CAVE
Most men have a man cave. This is an activity they do or a place they go to, perhaps a room; maybe to play a game, watch TV, meditate and think, write, read, create, work out, or just be. Let him have this, just agree with him on how he can balance his time so that he doesn't spend too many hours in his man cave
7. PRAY FOR HIM
There is something about the old adage: “The family that prays together stays together.” Being on one accord with your spiritual Beliefs are a significant source for connection, friendship, and foundation. It is important to understand one another’s relationship with Values and cultural principles. Ceremonies, shrines, family gatherings, and
Cultural Communities are important. Pray for him. You are the one who knows best his potential, struggles, battles, and questions; commit him to prayer. Let him hear you pray for him. Invite him to pray with you. Ask the Great Spirit to bless your food.
8. HELP HIM OUT FINANCIALLY
A lot of men are going through stress due to finances. Help him, by not putting pressure on him to give the family a lifestyle he can't afford at present, by helping to pay some of the bills, by helping him manage finances better, by saving and seeking long-term investments, and by stepping up, especially when he has been fired or going through business losses
9. AFFIRM HIM
A man can get tired, a man can go through burnout, a man can question himself, a man can worry, and a man can get discouraged; which is why you need to remind him of his greatness, celebrate his achievements and tell him how proud you are of him. This motivates him
10. STAY FAITHFUL TO HIM
Nothing destabilizes a man like when he suspects or finds out that the woman he loves and has given his all to is entertaining, flirting, sleeping with, or longing to be with another man. Spare him this torture
11. BE EASY TO TALK TO
Most men show a tough face and don't open up to anyone because they trust no one. This is how many of them go through depression and suffer in silence. They long to find a confidant to who they can reveal themselves and their deepest joys and pain; be that confidant. Trust is primary. Again, Learn your Love Language.
12. SMILE
The smile of the woman a man loves keeps him going. Your smile inspires him and makes him want to do more for you to keep it
13. KISS HIM
Kissing him shows affection. Kiss him not just on his lips, but kiss his cheeks, his arms, his back as you tell him you love him.
14. HOLD HIS HAND(S)
There is power in the human touch. Your touch is healing. Your right hand sends energy, and Your left hand receives energy. Touching hands connect you like a conduit. ("Relay" - Relationship)
15. MASSAGE HIM
Home massages are the best. Invest in some good massage oils and ask him occasionally to lie down and give him a feel-good massage. Lie down too so that he can return the favor. Again respect the power of the human touch
16. MAKE A LOVE DIARY
write a journal of your happy, Joy, and Laughter memories,; Dreams, Ideas, plans, and wishes. Sometimes it is helpful to write out your frustrations, disappointments, etc. then go back later to read them. Time can give a new perspective. If you have fulfilled your written expressions, burn them in a fire. If you are inspired. publish.
16. MAKE NEW MEMORIES WITH HIM
When he is spending time with you - face to face or online, make new memories together; joke with him, tease him, play with him, have stimulating conversations with him, and do something new. This will recharge him and make him miss you when you two are apart
17. LET HIM BE ENOUGH
It is important to a man that he feels that he is enough for you. It is important to allow him love you, to allow him to set the pace and stage and then to live within his means. Yes, you can encourage him and create a path to bring out the best in him. Yet there is a balance between inspiration and being the wind beneath his wings, or "Changing" him. No one want to be trapped under some pre conceived "Keeping up with the Jones" model. accept him as his true authentic self. Never throw his weaknesses into his face.
You will feel the magic in your relationship❤💖
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I am Nuta Beqsu, a Kandaki Ma of many Suns, Daughters, Grand Princesses, and Princes, living in the urban Kansas City Area. With a mission to provide solutions to the cycles of violence, health disparities, poverty, and inequalities in wealth, I opened the Amen Par Ankh, a Natural Life Center, and Amen Ankh Academy and Homeschool network of Industrial arts. This is a green space for Home Scholars, an Independent Library and Home Blessings and Notions. I am presently available for Consultations, Workshops Edutainment, and lectures. currently working with grief counseling making Dolls for mothers who have suffered the loss of their children. I have worked in the community as a Teacher, Priestess, Minister, Life coach, blogger, respected public speaker, and educator. I have conducted several workshops at various organizations, served as a panelist and as a keynote speaker at regional meetings. I had a monthly call-in or listen online- Radio show: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/amencommunications Nuta Beqsu means (heaven gives me balance) This is an ancient KMT language that is still in practice today. Nu and Nut are Elemental powers of the Heavens: Nu is Moisture and Water. Nut is the Celestial Star-goddess. She represents the cosmos and the universe, always giving birth to new stars. The Universe is always giving birth to new solar systems and stars. Ta is the original word for place, land, and City-States of our ancient Matriarchal societies. Our land is our home, and the place for the empirical existence where we learn from our experiences. She seeks to live in a balance between the planetary and heavenly existences. We are all connected to the land, trees, microcosm and macrocosm, Inner verse and universe. Nuta Beqsu (heaven gives me balance) will be programmed into conscious spirit, to produce thought sequences to direct a course of action as a way to achieve success in life. Visualization is thought converted into a pleasurable visual image(s) to achieve a goal and/or purpose. We connect with Divine Power to guide and direct our pathways. As a divine name is spoken the receiver has unity of direction in life. Our names reflect our Destiny. So, the sight Sound, vision, smell, and colors associated with a divine name will give guidance in my pathway of life. As a Minister and Director at Amen Par Ankh and Ankh Amen Ankh Akademy, we offer Ancestor Libation Ceremony, Consultations and Life Coaching for Destiny, Name, Health, Career, and Relationships. Afrikan Wedding planning and officiating services, Home and Business Blessings, Naming, Birth Blessings, Domestic Engineering, Homegoing Ascension services, Lectures, and edutainment- Storytelling, Music, Dance, Youth Outreach and Economic Literacy, Travel agency, Insurance Referrals and STEAM(science technology engineering vocational Arts mathematics medicine) Career introduction called You GROWW Girls- Teach a Girl, Heal a Nation GROWW means (Gaining, Resilience, Opportunity, Wellness and Wealth) Call for your appointment: 816-281-7704 Feel free to Contact the Amen Ankh Urban Farm... amen.ankh@live.com or amen.parankh@gmail.com Please like our facebook pages:
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