Black Love- When A Woman Loves A Man

Black Love- When A Woman Loves A Man- 

HOW TO CALM YOUR MAN'S MIND

1. MAKE LOVE TO HIM

There are many ways to show love, affection, friendship, connection, and attraction. LOVE IS A VERB! You can make love to your man all day long in the little and big things you do. This can be a prelude for strong bonds, mutual memories and trust. Intimacy, privacy, and quality time are important. Sex has a way of relaxing a man. Men want to feel desirable just like you do. You will change his mood when you make love to him, especially if you are the one who seduces him and initiates it. Look intentionally at him. Stare, smile, speak sweetly, and playfully. Leave poetry, jokes and inspirational messages like breadcrumb trails. 

2.  ASK HIM HOW HE IS

Most women want their man to ask them "How was your day?", "How did you sleep?" "How are you?" yet they rarely ask the husband these. If these questions make you feel cared for, your man also wants to feel cared for. Kiss him goodbye and Celebrate his Arrival home! 

3. FEED HIM!

Health is Wealth. Your food is your medicine. Every fruit, Herb, and Vegetable that you grow or select is alive with purpose.  Cultivate a garden in your windowsill, and grow micro greens to add vital nutrients and freshness to your meals, especially during the winter. Limit eating out or grabbing fast foods,  unless you are intentionally eating with family and friends.  As you make those home-prepared meals, you are sending your love energy with every touch, slice, and spoonful. Speak Life. Play some nurturing music or sing, and pray happy thoughts as you prepare. 

4. MAKE YOUR HOME A PEACE-ZONE 

Welcome Your man home. If coming home to you is coming home to yet another argument, conflict, and fight where you explode and turn everything into an issue, the minute he walks into the room, he will dread coming home and it hurts when the home is a place to run away from, not to run to. Communication is Key. What is your Love Language?

5. BLESS YOUR HOME -MAKE A CLEAN ORGANIZED ENVIRONMENT

Men like what they see. Having an inviting space to come home to as a couple is relaxing and inspiring. Memories are made from the senses.  Have all of his senses stimulated: sight, sounds, smells, tastes, and touch. It is important to have empty resting spaces to rest your eyes. Colors are integral to your life. There are family crests, and colors tied to your destiny, health, relationship and career, connect to a community cultural/spiritual leader for advice. Learn about Feng Shui- wind and water flow of energy, placement and movement in space. Bring Live house plants into your home. Plants clean the air and provide oxygen. Herbal potted plants can provide fresh live nutrients to your foods. 

A disorganized home is a breeding ground for stress, cortisol, depression, and disease.

A lot of men can be disorganized, especially when they are going through a lot in life or have a lot on their minds. This chaos in their system, dressing, schedule, or environment can lead to more unease in their mind. When you help him clear the clutter and attend to some of his needs without him asking, he will think better. Don't throw out his lucky ugly sweaters

6. LET HIM HAVE HIS MAN CAVE 

Most men have a man cave. This is an activity they do or a place they go to, perhaps a room; maybe to play a game, watch TV, meditate and think, write, read, create, work out, or just be. Let him have this, just agree with him on how he can balance his time so that he doesn't spend too many hours in his man cave 

7. PRAY FOR HIM

There is something about the old adage: “The family that prays together stays together.” Being on one accord with your spiritual Beliefs are a significant source for connection, friendship, and foundation. It is important to understand one another’s relationship with Values and cultural principles. Ceremonies, shrines, family gatherings, and Cultural Communities are important. Pray for  him. You are the one who knows best his potential, struggles, battles, and questions; commit him to prayer. Let him hear you pray for him. Invite him to pray with you. Ask the Great Spirit to bless your food. 

8. HELP HIM OUT FINANCIALLY 

A lot of men are going through stress due to finances. Help him, by not putting pressure on him to give the family a lifestyle he can't afford at present, by helping to pay some of the bills, by helping him manage finances better, by saving and seeking long-term investments, and by stepping up, especially when he has been fired or going through business losses 

9. AFFIRM HIM

A man can get tired, a man can go through burnout, a man can question himself, a man can worry, and a man can get discouraged; which is why you need to remind him of his greatness, celebrate his achievements and tell him how proud you are of him. This motivates him

10. STAY FAITHFUL TO HIM

Nothing destabilizes a man like when he suspects or finds out that the woman he loves and has given his all to is entertaining, flirting, sleeping with, or longing to be with another man. Spare him this torture 

11. BE EASY TO TALK TO

Most men show a tough face and don't open up to anyone because they trust no one. This is how many of them go through depression and suffer in silence. They long to find a confidant to who they can reveal themselves and their deepest joys and pain; be that confidant. Trust is primary. Again, Learn your Love Language. 

12. SMILE

The smile of the woman a man loves keeps him going. Your smile inspires him and makes him want to do more for you to keep it

13. KISS HIM

Kissing him shows affection. Kiss him not just on his lips, but kiss his cheeks, his arms, his back as you tell him you love him. 

14. HOLD HIS HAND(S)

There is power in the human touch. Your touch is healing. Your right hand sends energy, and Your left hand receives energy. Touching hands connect you like a conduit. ("Relay" - Relationship)

15. MASSAGE HIM

Home massages are the best. Invest in some good massage oils and ask him occasionally to lie down and give him a feel-good massage. Lie down too so that he can return the favor. Again respect the power of the human touch

16. MAKE A LOVE DIARY

write a journal of your happy, Joy, and Laughter memories,; Dreams, Ideas, plans, and wishes. Sometimes it is helpful to write out your frustrations, disappointments, etc. then go back later to read them. Time can give a new perspective. If you have fulfilled your written expressions, burn them in a fire. If you are inspired. publish.

16. MAKE NEW MEMORIES WITH HIM 

When he is spending time with you - face to face or online, make new memories together; joke with him, tease him, play with him, have stimulating conversations with him, and do something new. This will recharge him and make him miss you when you two are apart

17. LET HIM BE ENOUGH

It is important to a man that he feels that he is enough for you. It is important to allow him love you, to allow him to set the pace and stage and then to live within his means. Yes, you can encourage him  and create a path to bring out the best in him. Yet there is a balance between inspiration and being the wind beneath his wings, or "Changing" him.  No one want to be trapped under some pre conceived "Keeping up with the Jones" model. accept him as his true authentic self. Never throw his weaknesses into his face.

You will feel the magic in your relationship❤💖

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Kamet's Tree is Chemistry

The Baobab Tree of Life!

There’s something sacred about Baobab Trees.

For quite a while, I have been fascinated with the image of the baobab tree. Trees and plant life have always been a facination in my mind.

The Baobab Tree reminds me of the Story of Ausar.

http://amen-parankh.blogspot.com/2016/12/the-ausar-resurrection.html 

Goddess Nut, the mother of the Stars, created 4 days at the end of the year by giving birth to 4 children, Ausar (December 21st), Auset his wife (December 22nd), Sistar Het Heru (December 23rd) and his Brother Set (December 24th). Ausar became a benevolent ruler of the planet, who brought great abundance and prosperity. He created Heaven on Earth. Set, the baby brother was very spoiled and selfish. He grew jealous of Ausar's popularity and thought he could steal his brother's kingdom and fame. 

One day, Ausar and Auset had a grand wedding feast. Set had a gold lined Chest carved for Ausar's wedding gift. He convinced Ausar to collaborate in a magic trick, and had Ausar lay inside the heavy Golden Chest. Set immediately locked Ausar alive in the Chest, and dump him into the Nile river! Distraught, in grief and horror, Auset was never able to consummate her marriage! She ran away and went to the Nile river, looking for her husband until days turned into weeks and weeks into months. 

Even in death, Ausar made his presence known in abundance and prosperity! Auset finally learned that Ausar's wooden chest had grown into a great Baobab tree of Life right off a bank of the Nile river. All of the land around the tree grew prosperous and abundant. A farmer built his compound and community around the Baobab tree. The tree was so large, part of the trunk was carved into the farmer's bedchambers, where his newborn sun was born. So, Auset humbled herself and was hired as a nursemaid for the Farmer's wife. She finally convinced the farmer's family to dig down to the roots of the tree to remove her husband's body.

Ausar symbolizes all things green and growing.
Ausar represents the morning sunrise.
Ausar represents the 1st day of the Winter Solstice (Dec. 21st)
Ausar also represents the greatest version of ourselves- to endure and overcome all obstacles.
Ausar is anything in nature that lives, then dies, then is reborn.
Ausar also represents Every discipline and thriving achievement manifesting from humanity, found all over the globe!

 

This is a deeply spiritual principle caught in Our-Story of Ancient African Intelligent design and the foundation of all civilizations. The principle is this:
In life you can go through some difficult times. In order to change the circumstances a “new you” (Heru) has to be reborn. The “old you” (Set) has to die and it might even break you up. But even in the death of the “old you” life contains the seed germ (Ausar) of the “new you(Heru).” You may not see the germination stage while underground but then you are resurrected and reborn into a new and stronger self.

In other words, Life/Shift Happens- the rotten things (fertilizer) you go through in life helps you grow.

 

I was introduced to the baobab tree in the story of the Little Prince by Antoine de Saint Exupery.


The symbolism and allegory of the tree is rich with meaning and helps me to think of metaphysical axes.

It is hard not to marvel at the awesome possibilities of growth that these trees show yet paradoxically they are the upside down tree.

Image Credit: Daniel Montesino [flicker]

Knowledge and wisdom are like the trunk of the baobab tree.


No one person's arm span is great enough to encompass them.


Saying from Ghana



There are many myths and legend about the Baobab tree:


One African legend of the Baobab tree describes what happens if you are never satisfied with what you have:

"The baobab was among the first trees to appear on the land. Next came the slender, graceful palm tree. When the baobab saw the palm tree, it cried out that it wanted to be taller.
Then the beautiful flame tree appeared with its red flower and the baobab was envious for flower blossoms.
When the baobab saw the magnificent fig tree, it prayed for fruit as well. God became tired of the complaints and so yanked it up by its roots, and placed it upside down to keep it quiet."
All the animals were alarmed, and so was the huge tree. For after that, the magnificent tree only grew leaves once a year.
The other months the roots seemed to bend and grow towards the sky.


“Trees are poems the earth writes upon the sky; we fell them down and turn them into paper, that we may record our emptiness.” Khalil Gibran

The baobab is one of nature's remarkable creations and has evolved to make maximum use of the scarce resources around it, just like I imagine the early church to have been.

It is among the largest and longest lived trees on earth capable of growing to 98 feet tall and 36 - 60 feet wide.

It can survive long periods of drought with it's massive sponge like trunk that
which can be hollowed out to provide shelter.

The Baobab Tree is Kemet's Tree (Chemistry)!

When in leaf, its fruit provides Vitamin C and the leaves Vitamin A and it has more calcium than cow's milk.

It provides shade for all living things in the sub Saharan heat.

Baobab near Bulawayo, Zimbabwe (Image credit: ironmanix [flickr])

 

For millennia the baobab tree has provided a Market Place and a meeting place for dialogue,
sharing stories and debate of important issues and ideas.

 

It can undergo a huge amount of mutilation, and still continue to thrive and heal.

For some cultures it is the tree under which man was born.

It is a symbol of endurance, conservation, creativity, ingenuity and dialogue.

The great baobab tree — the tree of rest and resolution.

The five leaves of the Baobab Tree resemble an outstretched hand, hence its Latin name Adansonia Digitata, as if reaching out in friendship.

Baobabs create their own ecosystem with hollowed-out trunks, leaves, foliage, nectar, fruit, and bark providing habitats for many different creatures. This tree thrives in diversity.


The baobab's bark, leaves, fruit, and trunk are all used. The bark of the baobab is used for cloth and rope, the leaves for condiments and medicines, while the fruit, called "monkey bread", is eaten. Sometimes people live inside of the huge trunks, and bush-babies live in the crown.

It is not very often that you see a Baobab tree picture with leaves on the tree, usually only seen in a short rainy season for a couple of months.
Some baobabs can store up to 120,000 gallons of water from the rainy season to sustain themselves through the dry times.

When the long dry season returns the trees drop their leaves.


Image of baobab in leaf from Brian Gatwicke

 A tree of life...redeeming, restoring...making all things new.
A tree that thinks of heaven.....
that provides so much for many

The tree holds out hope that whole cultures will be healed and mended, becoming places where people can flourish and it sets an agenda for faith as a way of life that contributes to that flourishing, in anticipation, here and now."

*Image Source Baobab tree at sunrise. © Shahidul Alam/Dri

The baobab tree— the source of sustenance, spirituality, medicine, fuel, and identity for the villagers.


Rest of this wonderful review of it is here
Another extract from a film review from The Japan times says :

"For his new film, he went to the village of Touba Toul, 30 km west of Dakar, where he recorded the changing of the seasons and the planting of millet and peanuts, the two main crops. His focus, though, is the still abundant baobab.
The villagers feed the leaves to their animals, or dry and pound them into a nutritious powder called lalo; they pick up its fallen twigs for firewood, while using its bark to make rope, its pulp to make juice and its roots to make medicine; and they commune with the spirits of the dead that are said to inhabit it.


More and more Senegalese see the baobab not as a source of natural riches and spirituality, but as an impediment to the latest strip mine or real-estate scheme."

Let's sit down under the baobab tree

Man woman and child to discourse

Nuta Beqsu, is a Kandki Ma of many Suns, Daughters, Grand Princesses and Princes, living in the urban Kansas City Area. With a Mission to provide solutions to the cycles of violence, health disparities, poverty, and inequalities in wealth, she opened the Amen Par Ankh, a Natural Life Center, and Amen Ankh Academy and Homeschool network of Industrial arts. This is a green space for Home Scholars, an Independent Library and Home Blessings and Notions. She presently available for Consultations, Workshops Edutainment and lectures. currently working with grief counseling making Dolls for mothers who have suffered loss of their children. A Teacher, Priestess, Minister, Life coach, blogger and respected public speaker and educator who has conducted several workshops at various organizations, served as a panelist and as keynote speaker at regional meetings. She has a monthly call-in or listen online- Radio show http://www.blogtalkradio.com/amencommunications Nuta Beqsu means (heaven gives me balance) This is an ancient KMT language that is still in practice today. Nu, Nut, & Ta are Elemental powers of the Heavens: Nu is Moisture, and Water. Nut is the Celestial Sky goddess. She represents the cosmos and the universe. The Universe is always giving birth to new solar systems and stars. Ta is the original word for land and Queendoms of our ancient Matriarchal societies. Our land is our home, and the place for the empirical existence where we learn form our experiences. She seeks to live in balance between the planetary and heavenly existences. We are all connected to the land, trees, microcosm and macrocosm, Inner verse and universe. Nuta Beqsu (heaven gives me balance) will be programmed into conscious spirit, to produce thought sequences to direct a course of action as way to achieve successfulness in life. Visualization is thought converted into a pleasurable visual image(s) to achieve a goal and/or purpose. We connect with Divine Power to guide and direct our pathways. As a divine name is spoken the receiver has unity of direction in life. Her name reflects her Destiny. So, the sight Sound, vision, smells and colors associated with a divine name will give guidance in her pathway. As a Minister and Director at Amen Par Ankh and Ankh Amen Ankh Akademy, we offer Ancestor Libation Ceremony, Consultations and Life Coaching for Destiny, Name, Health, Career and Relationships. Afrikan Wedding planning and officiate services, Home and Business Blessings, Naming, Birth Blessings, Domestic Engineering, Home going Ascension services, Lectures, and edutainment- Storytelling, Music, Dance, Youth Outreach and economic Literacy, Travel agency, Insurance Referrals and STEAMM(science technology engineering Vocational, Industrial Arts,  mathematics medicine) Career introduction called You GROWW Girls- Teach a Girl, Heal a Nation GROWW means (Gaining, Resilience, Opportunity, Wellness and Wealth) Call for your appointment:  Feel free to Contact the Amen Ankh Urban Farm... amen.ankh@live.com or amen.parankh@gmail.com Please like our facebook pages: https://www.facebook.com/Green.Griot https://www.facebook.com/PARANKH , https://www.facebook.com/Amen.Ankh.Farm , https://www.facebook.com/Adenike.Art , https://www.facebook.com/pages/Ankh-The-Way-of-Life-Communities